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I don't think it's fair to dislike bi people because of "the long term". For one, that makes no sense at all.

on the one hand, you have societal pressures, which are forcing them to pick. Being forced to be gay or straight when you're really bi, is just another way of being pushed into the closet. It's unfair to criticize people for everyone else's mistakes.

On the other hand, who is the same in the long term? Any straight or gay person who think they were the same person 5 or 10 years before is just not intelligent. You learn more and discover more about yourself in the long-term. if that means that a bi person discovering they were straight or gay? well, that's on them. If their SO is scared that they will break up because they may or may not choose "a different side", then that's probably not a great relationship, or that couple is identical politically, socially, culturally, religiously and economically (not likely).

And yes, chasers. The bane of existence for every marginalized community