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J-o-e | Outnumbered? Have you not noticed that you and Lightford seem to be the only people disagreeing with me? And yes, I support human rights. That includes the right to love whoever you want to love and marry whoever you want to marry. | |
The Republic of Lightford | This might be the first time we agree on something, but it's just a speculation and I think you'd be an embarrassment. No offence. Exactly. The Earldom of Fallsbury, Ajidiali, and Yemrod | |
Great hesja empire | question about Polygamy I'm sure some of you have different answers to these. Lightford, Yemrod, and Tajono | |
Tajono | Ah, I think you used 'no offence' wrong. It doesn't get to nullify a rude comment you made. Lightford, The Earldom of Fallsbury, and Yemrod | |
The Republic of Lightford | I tried. The Earldom of Fallsbury and Yemrod | |
The Commonwealth of The Earldom of Fallsbury | Great hesja empire I don't see any real differences from a standard divorce. Visitation rights are a thing when a marriage breaks up now, and jealously is as well. There could be co husbands as well, you too seem to be thinking of this in a church tradition context, but for the sake of argument, it would be very similar to if your wife had a conflict with your sister in a traditional marriage. It would depend on the personalities of the people involved to decide who steps in and gets involved. No need for a law about it. And also like with standard marriage, you decide before you enter into it about name changes. | |
The Commonwealth of The Earldom of Fallsbury | ||
The Taevakesmik of Evokice | i can't be bothered to read so many messages, but I support polygamy The Earldom of Fallsbury, Fleshbird, and Tajono | |
The Taevakesmik of Evokice | could you telegram me what it is? :eyes: The Earldom of Fallsbury and Tajono | |
The Commonwealth of The Earldom of Fallsbury | Sent, do you agree, it's going to be a lively discussion? Evokice and Tajono | |
The Taevakesmik of Evokice | I can't wait :) The Earldom of Fallsbury and Tajono | |
The Commonwealth of The Earldom of Fallsbury | ||
Tajono | This sounds like it'll be fun | |
The Commonwealth of The Earldom of Fallsbury | Since we generally agree that what is done between consenting adults in the bedroom is between them and them alone, we must concede that incest in that context should not be illegal. Evokice and Tajono | |
The Commonwealth of The Earldom of Fallsbury | ||
J-o-e | Yes, in certain situations. There is a possibility of an unhealthy power dynamic or grooming being involved, making the consent part questionable, but as long as those factors aren’t in play, for example if we’re talking about 2 cousins who never even met until they were both 18+, I think it’s okay. The discussion does become more nuanced when we talk about having kids though, what with the possible birth defects and such. But if you’re in something like the cousin situation I described and you don’t plan to have kids I think you should be allowed to do whatever. I do obviously still think it’s weird and gross because we’re evolved to have that reaction instinctually to prevent aforementioned birth defects. Lightford and Tajono | |
The Republic of Lightford | ||
J-o-e | There is still the danger of of grooming or something in certain situations, like if you meet an older relative when you’re still a minor and get into a relationship once you’re an adult. Lightford and Tajono | |
The Commonwealth of The Earldom of Fallsbury | There's grooming and unhealthy power dynamics in non-related relationships as well. And there are generally laws to address that. Having Children is separate issue, if related. I don't think I could disallow it. The genetics is a problem to be sure, but it's actually safer than someone reproducing who has Huntingdon's Disease, Osteogenesis Imperfecta, or any one of dozens if not hundreds of genetically transmitted conditions. I too, am not a fan of this. But to be ideologically consistent, I have to allow it. | |
The Commonwealth of The Earldom of Fallsbury | Cousins isn't a good example as it's already legal in many, many places. | |
The Most Serene Republic of Ajidiali | I think that what you might see as "polygamy" is only polygyny - a situation where one man has multiple wifes, who aren't in relationship with eachother (at least not formal one). What I have on mind is a group marriage - wherein the family unit consists of multiple husbands and multiple wives of legal age (and non-binary spouses too but non-binary aren't recognised by the law yet). | |
J-o-e | Some people hyphenate their last names when they get married, that could get out of hand in some situations lol Great hesja empire, Lightford, The Earldom of Fallsbury, and Tajono | |
The Most Serene Republic of Ajidiali | Perfection | |
Yemrod | Hey! | |
The Most Serene Republic of Ajidiali | Palestine (I don't think this view is controversial; I hope it isn't) The Earldom of Fallsbury, J-o-e, and Tajono |